learn to appreciate

Found this posted by my old friend, Dilly. found it so interesting and well, true. It could happen to either a boy or a girl. read up..

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Boy:I broke up with her.

His Best Friend:What happened?

Boy:She’s just too much for me.

His Best Friend:What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?

Boy:Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..

His Best Friend:So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..

Boy:Oh.. Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!

His Best Friend:So, you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..

Boy:But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!

His Best Friend:So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..

Boy:I.. Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t b●tch about it.

His Best Friend:So, you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see..

Boy:Well, she..

His Best Friend:You broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?

Boy:I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?

His Best Friend:You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened

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we don't always cherish and be grateful to what we have. sometimes what we feel bothersome and a burden done by the other, it is actually done with good intentions, but we misinterpret it. So learn something from this, be grateful with what you have, and look deeper in someone, do not just judge by the surface. You might not see something good when it is right in front of you, and when you finally realize it, it was a minute too late.

that's a shame, ain't it?

izzuddin ismail

i have never thought in a million years i would date a guy like him, but i did. him with his super curly hair, weird sense of humor, but very sweet indeed. when he asked me to be his girl, i was so afraid that i would end up breaking this sweet guy's heart. but instead he ended up breaking up mine

i never thought i would learn to love you, but i did. and now when u gone, i really2 missed u. i hate it that we've broken up over your misconception of me, when i was not lying at all. i have no energy to fight with u anymore, when u had set ur mind on that misconception of me. so i just give up, and let u think whatever u want to think of me.

this is the truth, i loved you izzuddin ismail, but u have just lost me.

Meet Maru ;D

this cat is freaking cute!

lost and forever missed~

over the years, i have lost ppl that are dear to my heart, and still the pain from it lingers. though some don't hurt anymore, i do miss them sometimes. well, that's life.

1. Muhammad Farid bin Abdul Malik (kay)

2. Nadhirah Muhiyuddin

3. Abdul Azim Fikri

4. Mohd Hafiz Haqiqi

5. Khairul Anuar

6. Mohd Shahril bin Sa'at

u guys used to be my best friend and the love of my life. but now for some reason, we all drifted apart, some by death, most by stupid quarrels over meaningless things, and some because of the failure to appreciate the friendship and love we had build over the years. I miss u guys, but I know I have lost you all. Sorry for everyting that had happened, and I wish you all nothing but happiness and success in your life. I wish things had gone differently, or we could be like before, but all is in god's willing. i have already accepted this fate of our friendship.

people who don't make it to your future, means that they are not meant to be there~

hormones

My hormones are going crazy, n I am reeked with anxiety. ugh! i always do something stupid and crazy when my hormones get cuckoo

damn u crazy hormones!

why do women love bad boys?

I myself have to admit, that I always had a thing for bad and naughty guys, and it always ended with me saying, not again!!! Lol.. I known the story line so well already, but I keep playing the same ending over and over again, and I get so frustrated with myself, thinking what the hell is wrong with me, when your friends seems to be making the right choices, and already have their Mr.right.. so why do I keep falling to that same old trap? I'm sure this does not happen to just me, but to alot of other women out there. so it got me thinking.. so these are the reasons that I can came up with.

1. the adrenaline rush when u spend time with them, which usually is very wild

we are seeking for the rush and excitement they gave us when they take you on that wild ride

2. they always promised a good time

lets face it, bad boys knows how to have a good time, and they always deliver (most of the time at least)

3. the feeling of fixing things

women have this 'idea' they can fix things that are broken... bad guys usually seemed broken somewhere, so that's why they become, well, bad. so women take pity on them, and felt that they are the 'one' who will fix that, when so many other women before them had tried and failed. this fool's dream often left them dissapointed in the end

4. to tame wild animals

well, bad boys are viewed as wild animals. so, its a great feeling when u can tame a wild animal, making them sweet and cuddly with you, but not with others

5. devilish charm

bad boys often have their charm that u find hard to resist. sometimes u know he's bad for u, but u just can't help falling for him. they are devils in disguise

So now u know why we love bad guys =(

My top 5 breakup songs

Everyone have songs they can relate to during break ups.. well i recently went through a horrible break up, and so I compile the list just for fun =D

1. Adele- chasing pavement

thinking should i gave this relationship up, or keep trying to salvage it

2. feist- inside and out

its about me still loving him wholly evendoe he's a jerk and took advantage on me

3. alicia keys- try sleeping with a broken heart

trying to be strong evendoe im broken hearted, and trying to sleep when im hurting

4.avril lavigne- i miss u

when at times i felt his loss n missing him so much

5. la roux- bulletproof

thinkin that next time around i will be strong and let no one hurt me again

what are your break up songs??